Lil Upset

My mama, geez I can't believe the nerve of her!!! Ok I see her all the time, I don't actually go to her house, b/c my week's are busy, Austin has therapy and by the time I'm done, I don't have time to go visit her b/c she lives an hour away from there. She meets me a lot at therapy, to save time and we can visit. Well, last Sun she mentioned us doing something this Sat....it wasn't etched in stone yet. So I called my Dad Tuesday and asked him what he was doing Saturday and he said he was trying to get off, so I told him we'd come up to his house and visit him. I haven't been there since LAST Christmas. Anyhow I told my mom that he 'invited' us b/c I didn't wanna hurt her feelings, well I knew I had by the tone of her voice...so we get off the phone and she calls back 5 min later and said she's not mad, but she's upset...what??!!! I see her ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL the time!!! THEN she gets on this bit about how we are coming to the same town to see dad, and we never go to her house............ok she doesn't have a child that has therapy....and ya know when her and I go do something after, I'm never home in time for Ashlyn to get off the bus...I always have to call family to come up here and meet her...I don't like doing that. THen the weekends Travis is home, soooo what is her problem?? She just is jealous and is not wanting to understand anything. Like I said in my opinion it shouldn't matter whose house your at, what matters is you see each other, right? I mean I don't see my Dad much. He's busy all the time, and since Travis is gonna be gone this weekend I thought why don't I go see him...well soooo to make her feel better, I said after I see Dad Saturday, I'll go home and come back up Sunday to see you...she knew I was doing it out of pity, and I hope that she felt bad about it!!! B/c There was NO sense in her acting that way............first time I've seen my dad since July and she wants to get "upset", well let her I say!!!! GRRR I'm SOOOO mad. And when I go see her Sunday I have somethings to say to her............this is old but has been weighing on me for a long time. Ya know normally you have a baby shower esp your first pregnancy??? I didnt. U know what happened? They gave my MOTHER a GRANDMOTHER shower!!! WHY???? She had a babyshower when she was pregnant, why in the HELL did she need a GRANDMOTHER shower???? She covered it up and said they just all got together and brought the gifts to her and then she brought them to me, but I knew better, the weekend before it happened Travis was in my hometown and ran into one of the ladies and she spilled the beans to him. I'm sorry that has just stuck w/me to this day. Makes me feel hurt when I think about it....anyhow I gots somethings to say to her, and she needs to brace herself b/c some of these things she needs to hear!